Why Intelligent Men Fail With Women – Part 3

REASON #3: POOR SOCIAL SKILLS.

It blows my mind how many smart guys I meet that just don't get it when it comes to basic social skills.

It's as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games... and not worth the time it would take to learn them.

In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that people like" in their mental model of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.

Social skills are just that... skills.

They're not social information.

They're not social theories.

They're social skills.

And you don't get them by thinking about them. You get them by getting them.

Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans... and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.

REASON #4: THEY PSYCH THEMSELVES OUT.

Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me...

They come up with all the reasons why everything won’t work when it comes to women and dating.

They actually figure out why what it is that they would like to do will probably fail...

They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes... and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.

They don’t even try.

Now, if you've thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?

I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?

It is sound logic, but horrible thinking when it comes to the real world... and success with women.

Because smart guys don't understand women, and they don't understand what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They're wrong before they even start figuring!

Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won't work in this area of your life leads to ultimate failure.

You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it.

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