How to Act When You Like a Woman – Part 3

So what is it that separates the "cool" guys from the "uncool" guys?

What is "cool"?

What is it that makes a few rare people the kind of people that everyone wants to be around?

What is it about un-cool guys that repels other people, and makes women run away?

And what is it about this element that I'm calling "cool" that makes guys who have it attract more women than they can handle?

THE DEFINITION OF COOL

I personally think that being "cool" comes down to:

1) Being independent

2) Being indifferent

3) Being funny

4) Being socially adjusted

Before I get into each of these in detail, I want to mention something...

Usually, I tend to stick to techniques to help you meet more women, or give you advice to get past limiting beliefs, etc.

I've realized recently that there are a few basic, fundamental things that we, as guys, need to really "get" about interacting with other people before we start trying to learn advanced stuff, like how to approach and meet women. If you don't have some of the basic things handled, all the fancy techniques in the world won't fix your problem.

So stick with me here, this is important.

OK, so let's talk about the four components that I mentioned above.

BEING INDEPENDENT

Independent is the opposite of "dependent".

When you act "dependent", you lean on others, you look to them for approval, you ask what they think before you make a decision, you tend to want to stay physically close to them, and your feelings tend to depend on what others feel and think of you.

When you act independent, you lean back, you do things because you decided you wanted to, you don't ask others what they think - instead you decide yourself, you are fine walking away from your friends for awhile when you're out, and your feelings are controlled by what you think, not what others think.

A "dependent" person will go into a bar with friends, stick close to them all night, ask what everyone else is drinking before they order, get upset easily about things that others say, and constantly be looking for attention and approval in some way.

An independent person, on the other hand, will go into a bar with friends and be more likely to... walk away and look around the place alone to see who's there - and feel fine about leaving their friends for awhile and striking up a conversation with a stranger... They'll order a drink if they want, or water if they want – and not care what everyone else is drinking... They'll be cool and calm no matter what happens - even if others are getting upset around them... And, most importantly, they aren't looking to others for attention and approval. They're doing their own thing, and enjoying whatever happens.

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